Living in a vibrant, dynamic place like Denver brings incredible opportunities, but let’s be honest – modern life, wherever you are, comes with its share of stress. Sometimes, that everyday stress can tip over into anxiety, becoming persistent, overwhelming, and interfering with your ability to enjoy life. If you’re feeling caught in a cycle of worry, panic, or unease, please know you are not alone, and anxiety is highly treatable.
At My Denver Therapy, we understand how debilitating anxiety can feel. We also know that finding the right path forward can seem daunting. That’s why we’ve created this comprehensive guide – to help you understand anxiety better, explore effective treatment options available here in Denver, learn practical self-help strategies, and connect with valuable resources.
Understanding Anxiety: What Does It Look and Feel Like?
Anxiety isn’t just feeling stressed before a big presentation. It’s the body’s natural alarm system getting stuck in the “on” position. While occasional anxiety is normal, an anxiety disorder involves intense, excessive, and persistent worry and fear about everyday situations.
It can manifest in various ways, sometimes categorized into types like:
- Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD): Persistent, excessive worry about various things.
- Panic Disorder: Sudden episodes of intense fear (panic attacks).
- Social Anxiety Disorder: Overwhelming worry and self-consciousness in social situations.
- Phobias: Intense fear of a specific object or situation.
Regardless of the specific type, common symptoms often overlap and can impact your mind, body, and behavior:
- Emotional: Feeling worried or fearful, restlessness, irritability, feeling “on edge.”
- Physical: Racing heart, shortness of breath, trembling, sweating, fatigue, muscle tension, headaches, stomach issues, sleep problems.
- Cognitive: Difficulty concentrating, mind going blank, intrusive anxious thoughts, anticipating the worst.
- Behavioral: Avoiding situations that trigger anxiety, procrastination, changes in eating patterns.
How Common is Anxiety? You’re in numerous company. Anxiety disorders are the most common mental health concern in the United States, affecting over 40 million adults (19.1%) each year. (Source: NAMI – Anxiety Disorders). Recognizing these signs is the first step toward seeking help.
Proven Therapies for Anxiety: Finding Effective Treatment in Denver
The great news is that decades of research have led to highly effective therapies for anxiety. Finding a therapist trained in evidence-based methods is key. Here are some leading approaches we utilize at My Denver Therapy:
1. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Often considered the “gold standard” for anxiety, CBT operates on the principle that our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are interconnected. It helps you identify unhelpful or inaccurate thought patterns and beliefs that fuel anxiety, and then learn skills to challenge and change them, along with modifying behaviors (like avoidance) that maintain the anxiety cycle. Research consistently shows CBT leads to significant improvement for many individuals struggling with various anxiety disorders. (Learn More: APA – Cognitive Behavioral Therapy). Explore CBT and Anxiety Therapy at My Denver Therapy.
2. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapy While renowned for trauma treatment, EMDR can also be highly effective for anxiety, especially when anxiety stems from specific distressing past experiences, negative beliefs about oneself, or fears rooted in earlier events. EMDR uses bilateral stimulation (like eye movements) to help the brain reprocess these “stuck” memories and associated negative beliefs, reducing their emotional charge and decreasing anxiety symptoms. Learn about EMDR Therapy at My Denver Therapy.
3. Other Effective Approaches Depending on your specific needs, other therapies like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), which focuses on accepting difficult thoughts and feelings while committing to value-driven actions, may also be beneficial. Our therapists tailor treatment to your unique situation. Meet Our Team of Therapists skilled in various approaches.

Building Your Anxiety Management Toolkit: Strategies You Can Use Today
Therapy provides foundational change, but incorporating self-help strategies into your daily life can significantly enhance your ability to manage anxiety in the moment. Think of these as tools for your mental wellness toolkit:
1. Grounding Techniques (Calm in the Moment) When anxiety spikes and your mind races, grounding helps anchor you to the present.
Try the 5-4-3-2-1 Method: *
5: Name FIVE things you can SEE right now. (e.g., your desk, a tree outside, a crack in the wall). *
4: Name FOUR things you can FEEL/TOUCH. (e.g., your feet on the floor, the texture of your chair, the coolness of a glass). *
3: Name THREE things you can HEAR. (e.g., traffic outside, your own breathing, the hum of a computer). *
2: Name TWO things you can SMELL. (e.g., coffee, soap, fresh air if near a window). *
1: Name ONE thing you can TASTE. (e.g., mint from toothpaste, a sip of water, the lingering taste of lunch).
2. Mindful Breathing Anxiety often involves shallow, rapid breathing. Slow, deep breaths can calm your nervous system.
Try Box Breathing:
- Inhale slowly through your nose for a count of 4.
- Hold your breath gently for a count of 4.
- Exhale slowly through your mouth for a count of 4.
- Hold the exhale gently for a count of 4.
- Repeat for several cycles.
3. Challenge Anxious Thoughts (A CBT Skill) Anxious thoughts often feel like facts, but they aren’t always accurate or helpful.
When you notice a worry spiral, ask yourself:
- What is the evidence for this thought?
- What is the evidence against it?
- Is there another way to look at this situation?
- What would I tell a friend if they had this thought?
- Is this thought helpful, or just distressing?
4. Lifestyle Factors Matter Consistent habits support overall mental well-being:
- Movement: Regular exercise is a powerful anxiety reliever.
- Sleep: Prioritize consistent, quality sleep (aim for 7-9 hours).
- Nutrition: A balanced diet supports stable energy and mood. Be mindful of blood sugar swings.
- Substances: Limit caffeine and alcohol, as they can exacerbate anxiety symptoms. * (Explore general wellness tips: CDC Healthy Living)
Finding Anxiety Support and Resources in Denver
Connecting with others and accessing reliable information can make a big difference:
- NAMI Colorado: Offers support groups, educational programs, and resources for individuals and families affected by mental health conditions right here in Colorado. (Visit NAMI Colorado)
- Anxiety & Depression Association of America (ADAA): Provides extensive online resources, webinars, self-screening tools, and a “Find-A-Therapist” directory. (Visit ADAA)
- Your Doctor: It’s always wise to consult your primary care physician to rule out any underlying medical conditions that could be contributing to anxiety symptoms.
Ready to Find Relief? How My Denver Therapy Can Help
Understanding anxiety and learning coping skills are important steps, but sometimes professional guidance is needed to create lasting change. At My Denver Therapy, we are dedicated to providing compassionate, evidence-based care tailored to your specific needs. Our experienced therapists can help you:
- Understand the roots of your anxiety.
- Develop personalized coping strategies.
- Process underlying issues using effective therapies like CBT and EMDR.
- Build resilience and move towards a calmer, more fulfilling life.
You don’t have to navigate anxiety alone. Reaching out is a sign of strength.
Take the next step towards feeling better. Contact My Denver Therapy today for a consultation.
Conclusion:
Anxiety can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to control your life. By understanding its nature, exploring effective treatments like CBT and EMDR, utilizing practical self-help tools, and connecting with resources, you can significantly reduce its impact. Remember, effective help is available right here in Denver, and taking proactive steps towards managing your anxiety is a powerful investment in your well-being.