Gray divorce therapy in Denver
Therapy for support and healing during or after a divorce later in life.
Get help moving forward after separation or divorce
Experiencing a divorce at any age is challenging, but a “gray divorce”—separation or divorce later in life—comes with its own unique complexities.
At My Denver Therapy, we understand the emotional upheaval, the shifting family dynamics, and the specific concerns that arise when relationships end after many years. You don’t have to navigate this alone.
Understanding gray divorce: You are not alone
Gray divorce, generally referring to divorces among individuals over 50, is a significant trend. If this is happening to you, it’s important to know you’re far from alone.
Research shows that while overall divorce rates have decreased in recent decades, the rate for adults aged 50 and older has roughly doubled since the 1990s. For people 65 and older, the rate has tripled in the same timeframe.
In fact, today, more than one in three people getting divorced in the U.S. is over the age of 50. This shift means facing divorce later in life is much more common than it once was.
It can bring a mix of feelings: sadness, grief, confusion, and perhaps even a sense of unexpected freedom. You may be facing questions about your identity, your future, and your relationships with adult children and other family members.
The unique challenges of gray divorce
Ending a long-term marriage often involves distinct hurdles:
- Complex Financial Adjustments: Dividing assets accumulated over decades, such as retirement funds, pensions, and the family home, requires careful planning and often leads to significant financial shifts.
- Evolving Family Dynamics: Navigating relationships with adult children, who have their own perspectives and feelings about the divorce, needs sensitivity and open communication.
- Profound Emotional Impact: The end of a long partnership can bring deep grief, loneliness, anxiety, or depression, even if the separation feels necessary.
- Identity Re-evaluation: You might find yourself re-evaluating your sense of self, your social circles, and your vision for the future outside of the marriage.
- Concerns About the Future: Worries about health, companionship, and financial security in later life are common during this transition.
How therapy provides support and guidance
Our experienced therapists at My Denver Therapy offer a safe, confidential, and supportive space to help you navigate this transition. We can assist you in:
- Processing Complex Emotions: Working through the grief, anger, relief, fear, and uncertainty that often accompany gray divorce.
- Developing Coping Strategies: Learning healthy ways to manage stress, rebuild self-esteem, and combat feelings of loneliness or anxiety.
- Navigating Family Changes: Finding constructive ways to communicate with adult children and redefine family relationships.
- Rediscovering Yourself: Exploring personal goals, new interests, and strengths as you build a fulfilling future.
- Building Resilience: Gaining tools and perspective to embrace this new chapter with hope and confidence.
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Meet our therapists
As a therapist-owned practice, we care about helping you heal, grow, and thrive. All of our therapists take a client-focused approach to counseling and approach each session with a commitment to your progress and growth.
Availability
We’re always accepting new clients at our conveniently located offices in Denver, Greenwood Village, Lone Tree, and Arvada, and all of our therapists can meet with clients online.
We have a therapist for you
Because we have a large team of therapists with a wide range of specialties, we work with clients of all ages, backgrounds, and life experiences. You are welcome here.
We can match you with a therapist who matches your goals, location, and schedule. We also have male and female therapists of all ages to help you find a therapist you feel comfortable with.
We can provide specific types of therapy
To support your mental health journey, our therapists are trained in some of the most effective forms of therapy available today, including EMDR, Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy, CBT, DBT, and IFS.
Insurance information
We’re out of network with insurance and Tricare and are unable to take Medicaid or Medicare. Unlike many therapy practices, we don’t charge separate intake or administration fees or charge more for specialized therapy methods like EMDR.
Get matched with a therapist
Contact us today, and one of our therapists will reach out to you directly.